Tools of the trade

A friend emailed me to ask about Sophie the Giraffe from my last post, so I thought I'd dish a bit about the "tools of the trade": the essentials that I use everyday!

1. Ergo carrier - The Ergo Baby carrier is a recent addition to my mom arsenal, but it has quickly become my favorite! I haven't had back or shoulder pain (which I've gotten from other baby carriers, including the Bjorn and a sling) and it's way less work than wrapping myself with a Moby wrap. (Loved the concept of the Moby but just couldn't get it to work for me...) Joseph loves being held, and with the Ergo I can strap him (carefully!) onto my back and do housework, walk, or just bounce around with him.
2. Singing monkey toy - This has been one of Joseph's favorite toys since birth. We strapped it onto his carrier car seat, and now when we put him in his "big boy" car seat we still play it for him. Even if he's grumpy the music and lights make him smile!
3. "Crinkly" baby books - Another all-time favorite. These are great for traveling because they have handles that can be attached with links or straps so they don't get lost. Joseph also loves to teeth on these!
4. Baby banana toothbrush - Brushing teeth doesn't sound like fun, but we make it fun with this toothbrush (no toothpaste needed yet... although at the rate he's teething we may need to start using it!) and mommy's fun toothbrush song (which I may release as a CD sometime soon... keep your eyes peeled haha). Joseph also likes to chew on this as it's more like a teether than a brush.
5. Planet Wise wet bags - For the cloth diaperer, an essential. These bags keep the diapers ready for washing, and I haven't noticed too many problems with smell (although if they aren't zipped all the way some odors do emerge!). These also could be used for dirty laundry if you're not into cloth diapers.
6. Grandma El's diaper rash cream - The best diaper rash/prevention cream we've used to date. It is safe for cloth diaper usage (shouldn't use traditional diaper rash creams with cloth as the zinc oxide and other chemicals can cause the diapers not to absorb as well), smells good, and is more natural so baby doesn't have a ton of chemicals on his booty!
7. Roobeez baby shoes - Love these! Lose the baby socks (you will lose them anyway!) and go for Roobeez or Bobux - you won't regret it! They stay on all day and allow Joseph to use his toes for gripping/learning to walk while providing protection against the environment. Plus, they are pretty darn cute!
8. Tommy Tippee bottles - The only bottle Joseph liked enough to use. We also saw a decrease in gas (and the associated spit-up) with these.
9. Infant tylenol. 'Nough said. I don't advocate drugging children, but some days this is all that will help my teething guy.
10. Fuzzibunz one-size diapers - I know I've raved about these before, but it's true: they rock! They are so easy to use and it's pretty rare to have a leak and even rare-r to have a blowout. (I don't think we've had a blowout since before starting solids!)

As Joseph continues to grow I'm sure our "must-haves" will grow with him, but for right now this is where we're at! Anyone else have any tools of the trade to share?

The throes of teething

My poor little boy is so sad. All of these big white teeth are trying to pop through his little gums. Sigh.

At least there is one consolation: he has discovered the joys of using a cold teether straight from the fridge, which seems to alleviate some of the pain. (Previously he refused all cold and/or wet items such as frozen washcloths.) I also bought him a Sophie teether, which he really seems to like. Another good purchase was a teething necklace, since he likes to try to eat my jewelry anyway.

Why oh why does benzocaine have to carry risks? We were using it before (since Joseph has been teething since 4 months old) and it seemed to help. However, I do not want to see any crazy problems like the ones described here. His health is more important than momentary discomforts.

Too many teeth!

I have a teething machine. Joseph had 2 teeth come in at 4 months old, and now at almost 8 months of age he has 7 teeth (with more on the way!). I'm glad he's healthy and so "advanced," but sometimes I really, really wish he was a late bloomer who didn't get any teeth until he was 1 year old!

Thanks to the teeth, this past week we have been having problems with feeding. Joseph is a "hasty latcher," meaning that he clamps on very quickly. This wasn't a problem until recently when he started using his bottom teeth instead of covering them with his tongue. I was trying to work with him to get him to open wider, but he was struggling against any interference so I just dealt with the pain and figured it would get better.

Then, on the eve of Mother's Day, he bit down very quickly and got my nipple. Can I just say OUCH!!! I started bleeding and was freaking out a little bit because it's very emotional (and painful!) to feel like you can't figure out how to feed your own child. I was even down on myself a bit because, as a working mom, I sometimes feel like I'm not truly a mom in any way except in being able to breastfeed my son. He spends more time with his auntie and grandmas during the week than he does with me, which, although I am grateful that we have family to help, does sometimes make me concerned about his attachment to them vs. to me in the long run.

I ended up pumping that night and twice the next morning. Joseph wasn't having my interference when I tried to get him to latch in the morning, and he actually reached for the bottle that was sitting on the table nearby. (Talk about rejection.) I also was very nervous about getting him to latch on because I was looking at those teeth just waiting to clamp... Yikes!

I wasn't sure how things were going to end up this week, but (thanks be to God!) my Mother's Day present was being able to work with Joseph to get him to latch on pain-free! Yay! :)

In case anyone else is dealing with a similar problem, this is what I did: I used the hand that's not aiming the breast to push the bottom of his chin open as wide as possible - kind of like you're about to milk a snake (haha). The information I found online recommends cupping the hand underneath the chin, but that's a) uncomfortable and b) he doesn't like that even more than he doesn't like this! I also aim the breast at his nose per the recommendations found on kellymom. (It sounds weird but it does help!)

My husband also wrote me a really nice note in which he reminded me that mothering is about more than just feeding our son, and that he thinks I'm a great mother to Joseph. Of course, that made me start crying again, but it was really nice and it did help me to get out of the emotional valley I was stuck in.

Has anyone else had any special breastfeeding hurdles they've had to conquer?