Overnight Diapering Problems...

Sigh... as all my loyal readers (all 5 of you ;) know, I am a cloth diapering user and proponent. However, this past week we've been having problems with our overnight diapering: My little man developed an irritation on his pee-pee that was bleeding!!! YIKES!!!

Thankfully it was just a little dot here and there, but it's been consistent every few days with a little drop of blood on his diaper in the morning. NOT what you want to see.

I'm not sure why it's been happening, but we took him to doctor and they gave us some ointment to put on it, and recommended either using disposables or "softening" the cloth diaper in some way so it wasn't so irritating. We've gone down to one liner during the day, which has seemed to help, but the overnight has been the issue.

For now, the plan is to switch to disposables for overnights until the irritation is gone, then to try some different cloth diapering solutions and see which one works best. I found this page on the Cotton Babies website that was helpful, so I ordered 3 BumGenius stay-dry diapers with some extra microfiber inserts and hemp liners to try. I also decided to try the hook and loop (aka Velcro) diapers instead of the snaps as a) we've only been using snap covers and b) they seem more adjustable, so we will hopefully be able to get a good fit.

Here's hoping this works! Anyone else have any overnight ideas for me to try?

Fuzzibunz sale!

I had to post a link to this for all of my cloth diapering moms: Buy 5 one-size Fuzzibunz, get 1 free!

Cloth diapers - the sequel

Here's the skinny on some of those other cloth diaper questions that I had when starting (and you might have if you're considering cloth):

Overnights: Now that Joseph is bigger, we realized that using the same type of diaper for day and overnight wasn't working anymore, so I investigated overnight options. There are lots of opinions out there, but what we found to work best so far is using the Fuzzibunz covers (since that's all we have! :) but stuffing them with Bigger Weeds hemp prefolds wrapped around the small Fuzzibunz microfiber insert. We also have recently purchased a medium-sized LoopyDo hemp/microfiber insert (recommendation from the Luvaboos' store owner and mom) and really like it - absorbs very well and is easier to assemble and clean than the prefold/insert combo. I’ve ordered some more of them and will be discontinuing use of the prefolds as they are more bulky.

Timing-wise, he’s now in a diaper for 10-12 hours with no bad results that I’m aware of.

Other cloth diapering moms have also recommended Drybees or other special “overnight” diapers. I haven’t tried any of these but if you have comment and tell me what worked for you!

Cleaning: At first, my hesitation about cloth was cleaning (otherwise known as, what to do with the poop?). However, things haven’t been that bad. I will be honest and say that smells are a problem from time to time, but honestly the worst smells have been pee (surprising to me!) and the smell of the diapers when you put them in the washer after they’ve been sitting for a day or so. The poop didn’t really smell that bad, and breastfed poops are pretty mild in terms of volume and leaking. The diapers (covers and inserts) do have some stains on them, but I’m looking forward to sunning them once spring is officially here in Rochester and seeing the dingy diapers turn clean again!

Switching to solids: So far, Joseph LOVES solids. So what has this meant for his diapers? Well, not too much of a change actually - in fact, they’ve actually gotten a little better to change! (Yes, I was surprised too.) Although the poops are bigger (occasionally) and more “formed” (yes, this is the part where I gross you out with TMI!), they actually come off the cover more easily (so far!) and (if caught early) don’t stain as much as some of the breastmilk-only poops did.
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Well, that’s it for my cloth diaper series! I hope you learned something and that you investigate the option seriously if you haven’t done so yet. Good luck and have fun with your diapering adventure!

Cloth diapering: The options

There are lots of options nowadays for cloth diapering. Here's a quick run-down:

• "Traditional" prefolds - This is what most people think of when they hear the term cloth diaper - the kind with the folding (aka assembly required) and pins. However, there are many types of prefolds on the market, and there are these awesome things called Snappis that work just as well (if not better than) pins. Most people also use 'covers' or 'wraps' with the prefolds to avoid leakage - these range from the classic 'plastic pants' to the many different styles of wraps available. My rating: 2 out of 5 stars. The price is nice, but I couldn't get the hang of folding the diapers (had a lot of leakage) and when Joseph was really small it was hard to find plastic pants that would work.

• Wraps with inserts - You buy a cute, cloth outer “wrap” and then fill it with inserts (or folded prefolds). Voila! My rating: 3 out of 5 stars. We tried a few different wraps (Flip covers were a favorite), but found that the mess (leakage) was higher depending on what kind of insert we used. More experimentation may have led to better results however.

• Pocket diapers - Similar concept to wraps but these inserts/liners come with the diaper (in most cases) and are sized for the diaper. There is a ‘pocket’ from front to back that you stuff with the liners. To clean, pull the liners out, rinse, rinse the cover, and toss in a wet bag. Perfecto! My rating: 5 out of 5 stars. These had the least leakage (depending on if the snaps/sizing was correct!) and were some of the least labor-intensive to clean. Also much easier to explain to our babysitters than the different insert options!

• All-in-ones (AIOs) - These are the mack trucks of cloth diapers. Essentially, they are pocket diapers without pockets - the liners are built in, which means no assembly required and very easy to rinse. The downside? Takes longer to dry after washing. My rating: ?? We never used these, but I’ve heard very good things about them from friends!

The next sub-category is sized diapers vs. one-size (or adjustable) diapers.

• Sized diapers mean that you buy diapers in a size (i.e., XS, S, M, L, XL) so that they fit well at whatever weight/length the baby is. The downlow: These should get less wear and tear than adjustables, as they won’t be used as long. However, you have to buy more of them (i.e., 10-24 in each size if you don’t want to do laundry every 3 hours), which makes them more costly.

• One-size diapers mean that they adjust to fit the baby, using snaps, velcro, and/or elastic. Most say they fit from 8 - 35 pounds (which may mean different things depending on the baby). The downlow: These are more cost-effective (i.e., buy 24 of them and use them until potty training is over). However, since they will be used more frequently, they may not last as long. (I’m hoping to get two babies’ worth of use out of ours though... time will tell!) Also, adjusting the size as baby grows is not always 100% on target with the recommended sizing.

Our experience: We started by buying a bunch of different types of diapers at one of Luvaboos' gently used sales - I think we ended up with some pockets, some prefolds, inserts, and wraps. (No AIOs though - I've never used them to date!)

Our favorite brand was (and still is!) Fuzzibunz. We used the XS sized pocket diapers when Joseph was tiny, and they worked really well - hardly ever leaked and the snaps are super easy. Once we had decided on the brand, we then moved to the one-size diapers as my husband was much happier with spending the $$ on something we could use until Joseph was 2. Fuzzibunz also had a pretty cool one-size diaper that they had recently launched (with neat elastic bands!) that we liked better than some other one-size options. (These other snap-only versions were very bulky... Joseph looked like a sumo wrestler!)

Recently, we did have to contact Fuzzibunz as one of our diapers had some peeling of the inner waterproof layer. (They have a one-year warranty on all of their diapers.) I was nervous about contacting them but the customer service was fast and very helpful! We mailed in the problem products and they sent us back a new diaper and some baby leg warmers (too cute!) within one week of receipt.

And no, Fuzzibunz isn’t paying me to write this. However, I’ll take free diapers whenever they want to send them to me though! (Hint, hint.)

Cloth diapering: Why use cloth?

We started using cloth diapers when Joseph was about 6 weeks old, and are still going strong at 6 months plus. I thought I'd write a little bit about our experiences in case anyone out there needed a guide. However, please note that all of these are opinions and I don't claim to be a "diaper expert!"

Our journey began before Joseph was born. Rochester is fortunate to have an actual cloth diaper store, Luvaboos (visit their website if you're curious!), which allowed us to go see the diapers in person. They sell a lot of other cool organic and earth-friendly baby and mom products too. My first experience was buying some gifts for my cousin's wife's baby shower, and it was rather overwhelming! I came back to the store with my husband, Joe, for their “cloth diapering 101” class, where we learned about the different types of cloth diapers and the benefits. Here’s a summary of the benefits we learned about:

• Cost benefits: To be honest, this is the main reason we went with cloth. The Luvaboos comparison showed us that we could save several thousand dollars by using cloth. My simplified comparison (with approximate numbers from our actual purchases) is below:

Cloth diaper costs:
26 one-size pocket diapers @ approx. $20 each = $520
4 wet bags @ $20 each = $80
Diaper sprayer ($30) + Cloth wipes ($32) = $62
Increased water costs (+$10 every 3 months over 2 years) = $80
Diaper-friendly detergent ($0.30/load x about 243 loads in 2 years) = $73
Hemp inserts (for overnight) = $35
Cloth-diaper friendly diaper rash cream (projected cost for 2 years) = $104
Grand total of about $954.

Disposable costs:
Assuming 8 diapers/day over 2 years (8 diapers x 730 days = 5,840 diapers used) x Average cost per diaper of $0.21 (based on Sam’s Club prices) = $1,226.40.
Add to that the cost of wipes ($0.025 per wipe x 10 wipes/day x 730 days = $182.50), a diaper genie with its little weenie bags ($25 + $144 = $169), and traditional diaper rash cremes (let’s say $60 over 2 years) equals...
Grand total of about $1,638. 

The difference: $1,638 - 954 = $684 saved. (In actuality, probably a bit more.)
Other savings: 5,000 less diapers in a landfill. AND - I can reuse the diapers for baby #2! 

• Health benefits: One of the key benefits from our point of view was less chemicals on baby’s skin. Yes, you can buy chlorine-free disposable diapers, but most disposables have lots of chemicals in them. We did use disposables for the first 6 weeks however, as 1) meconium is nasty to clean up and 2) we were given a diaper cake for our baby shower and felt obligated to use it. We also have used disposables when we went on a family road trip instead of trying to clean cloth diapers on the road (although we switched back to cloth on the day we were traveling home). Joseph didn’t seem to mind either type particularly but I did notice that he seemed to get  rashy with the disposables. (However, he tends to get rashy in his leg area anyway, so that’s not a conclusive argument against disposables.)
  
  
• Sustainability/"green" benefits: Less trash in a landfill. Reusing instead of disposing. The list goes on. (However, more water is used to wash the diapers, so that could be a downside. But I’m pretty sure that the water can be ‘cleaned’ and reused for something, and it’s still better than putting tons of plastic into a landfill!)
  
  
• Other benefits: We’ve heard rumors that it’s easier to potty train when using cloth (I’ll have to post if that’s true for us when the time comes!). And yes, one psuedo-benefit is that the diapers are cute with a capital C! 

In summary, we have been very happy with cloth diapers. Next time I’ll write about the different kinds out there and what we found when we tried some of them.